Humans are complicated, convoluted, and protean; we exist and change with our many complicated, convoluted, and protean relational-ties. Have you ever tried melding two idiosyncratic lives together harmoniously? If you aren't willing to share your experience of life with a person as untraceable and undefinable as yourself, you may not want to get married. If you want to engage another human being and share your life, with all its impetuous vicissitudes, while mutually embracing theirs--struggling, suffering, and growing with another person, then maybe you should marry.